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hi, i'm new! :) [06 Oct 2004|06:34pm]

[ mood | cheerful ]

Clones for Life.Collapse )

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Hello! [26 Sep 2004|01:28am]

[ mood | happy ]

Hiya! I'm new here to this community. It is so nice to find a community supportive of ldr, and to find others who are going through the same things, since it always seems that people find long distance relationships an act of desperation or flight of fancy. Anyway, Sean (the cutie on my icon,) and I have have been dating for four months, but have known eachother for several years. I met him online on a casual chat site I have frequented since I was 14. We are both now 19 and he lives and goes to college in Arkansas, while I do the same in Utah. Together that provides for a collective distance of about 1,500 miles between us. Visits are few and only come on holidays for about a week at a time. Our first/most recent visit was during my birthday in July and our next upcoming visit isn't until Thanksgiving (that is, if he can find some affordable tickets.) Last time, he rode the greyhound bus for almost 3 days to come and visit me. Not bathing or sleeping in between with a bunch of creepy hicks, (now THAT is love.) He calls me everyday, (or every chance he can get,) and sends me letters with pictures he has drawn of us (he is an EXCELLENT artist,) every week. He emails me about twice a week on top of that. However, he still cannot touch or hold me a webcam is all that is between us, and his careless, messy, pot-smoking roomates always act like assholes and get in the way of our alone time. "Dude, you've been talking to her all weekend, lets invite a bunch of people with all sorts of illegal drugs that we don't know over to wreck our stuff!" You can see my point that we are both really annoyed by them. We have a journal together on you_me_us that tells more of a story, but i will add more when I can :p

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Please read [16 Sep 2004|09:38pm]

Here's a virus being e-mailed to lj users and it looks like this:

Dear LiveJournal user,
We have recently noticed that you haven't updated your LiveJournal in
awhile. If you would like to keep your LiveJournal account, you must sign in
within the next 24 hours.
You may sign in at: {link removed}
Failure to sign in within the next 24 hours will result in account termination.

Please, post this in your personal journal and in your communities, even if it's off-topic for the community. This is very important.

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newbie [14 Sep 2004|06:16pm]

[ mood | lonely ]

I'm in Australia.. he's in the States.. get much further than 15hrs time distance and approx. 26hrs by plane away?

my story..Collapse )
we make huge phone bills.. we talk everyday. sometimes up to 3 times a day.
he is the love of my life, my best friend. I don't wanna live without him..
<3 B

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New Member [13 Sep 2004|05:54pm]

Hey I'm new to this community I thought it would be great to have support from people who know how long distance relationships are hard. I've been an online relationship for a year and 2 weeks this Thursday. His name is Donte and my name is Aubrie. I am 16 and he is 20, yes I know the age thing is odd but it really isn't for the 2 of us. He came here Augest 12th of this year to visit for the weekend and it was so great. Although it sucked because he had to go back to New York(I live in Colorado). After he visited here he wanted to move here he's still planning on it but not till next Spring. Before that he's going to visit again because we both know how much we miss each other. It's so sweet and great having him because we both love each other with all our heart and soul and amazing to share that with someone. Thanks for listening I hope to have a good time in this community
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[25 Aug 2004|10:46pm]

Try spending a month straight with him and then suddenly get thrown back into the long distance again.

It hurts.
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[11 Aug 2004|03:06pm]

[ mood | chipper ]

I was formally periodic_table but this is my new Livejournal name.

Just an FYI<3

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Its Over [31 Jul 2004|06:52pm]

He was here, for two whole weeks, and now, he's gone again. I am so lost right now.
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curious [29 Jul 2004|10:43pm]
When you're in a LDR with someone, which one of these visitation ideas would appeal to you the most?
A) You get to see him/her every few weeks to once a month, but you can only see him/her for a weekend.
B) You get to see him/her every few months, but you get to see him/her for a week
C) You get to see him/her from a year to a few years, but you get to see him/her for a whole month

my choice:
I think that I would most likely choose B. That is sorta how we're in right now. Although it would be awesome every few weeks, but a weekend is just so short, and it'll be over really quick. And if you have to spend money on plane tickets or driving anyway, you should make it worth it, right, and not just like two days, which would seem so short. And I didn't pick C because I don't think I'd want to wait for a few years, even if I do see him for a whole month. I guess I'm just not patient enough.
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[28 Jul 2004|05:46pm]

it hurts so bad not being able to be with him :(

please give me a hug.
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[27 Jul 2004|09:46pm]

my name is stephanie and im sixteen from california. i am currently involved in an online relationship with a boy named scott from canada. hes nineteen and i love him more than anything. its one of the hardest situations ive ever been in and sometimes i wonder if i can trust him, but overall i think its worth it. i joind this community becuase i felt it would be nice to be ablet o talk to others going through the sort of things i am.
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[24 Jul 2004|02:53pm]

Hey all! I'm new to the community. My name is Becca, I'm from Arizona. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. I met him online, and I haven't got to meet him in person yet. I'm not sure when I'll get to, either. He's 35, and I'm 18. (please..no negative comments about this) Him and I are so completely in love with each other, and there's no one else in this world that I wanna be with. Problem is that my parents don't know...and they would kill me if they did know. My parents aren't very accepting of ANYTHING that comes off the internet. They think anything on the internet is nothing but a ploy to that will get you raped or whatever. Anyway, I hope to meet some friends here.
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[21 Jul 2004|04:12pm]

[ mood | calm ]

Hello, I'm new here. I've been a member of longdistanceluv for a while, and I just saw this community posted on there. So I decided to join, it's always nice to have people who know what you're going through because they've been or are going through the same.
Here's my story;
My names Danielle and I've been with my long distance boyfriend for almost 1 year and 8 months [July 30]. I met him in an online chatroom about 2 or so years ago and after talking for a few months, we knew it was something mroe than just a friendship. So he asked me out blah blah blah. Problem is, he lives in northern SC and I live in South FL. So it's about 12/13 hours and 600 miles seperating us. We are very much in love with eachother. And the other problem is, he'll be started college this year, and hes staying there, and I'm still in high school. Yeah we're young. But we're so in love with eachother, we know eachother so well and everything. We've never had any real big fights.. little nonsense ones, but thats normal. And we both beleive we're meant to be together.
I've read many of all of your stories, and you all have met your loves, but thats not the case of us. We've never met, hoever we always talk on the phone and online and send letters with pictures to eachother. So I guess it really hurts knowing we won't meet for a little longer or so.

I'll stop myself now. But thanks for all your support in advance =]

<3 danielle

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[18 Jul 2004|09:46am]

me&Josh <3

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Hey [16 Jul 2004|04:42pm]

[ mood | calm ]

I'm a new member here... I met my boyfriend online last september, and we met in December. We've been a couple since December 27th (coming up for 7 months in just over a week). I live in Israel and he lives in Australia, but like I said, we met up when he came to Israel last December. I'm going to Australia (via England) in November (going to England mid-October for my grandparents' 60th wedding anniversary and then after a month, I'm going on to Australia).
Feel free to ask anything else you wanna know about me...

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a poem I wrote for my love [15 Jul 2004|10:37am]
[ mood | in love ]

a sonnetCollapse )

Yes, it is completlely written by me, yours truly, so please don't copy it anywhere okay? Thanks.

I love my boy.

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Guys, I need help! [15 Jul 2004|12:58am]

[ mood | confused ]

Ok so I love Ronnie with all my heart and soul. Thing is, I have a friend with whom I have been flirting a lot recently (I am a flirty person by nature, but perhaps have taken it a bit too far this time) and now he thinks that I am going to fool around with him. I have already told him there is no way I would sleep with him, but the problem is, I haven't told him no to everything. Its not that I want to cheat on Ronnie, that's not my intention, but everytime I am around said guy, I have this huge urge to kiss him. It's horrible, I know. And I haven't acted yet. But I am scaring myself. If I love Ronnie so much, why do I want to do this? And why can't I just tell him no to everything? I know one thing that attracts me to him is just the fact that he is so open about how much he likes me and stuff, and he keeps saying he would be willing to keep it secret from EVERYONE if I agreed to it but...ARGH I'm so confused. Please help!

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a quiz [14 Jul 2004|10:58am]
Will Your Relationship Survive the Long Distance Test?

My results:

Penelope and Odysseus

More about my resultsCollapse )
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rant [13 Jul 2004|11:03am]
[ mood | annoyed ]

Just a little rant.

It really annoys me when people think that because you're in a LDR, it's "pathetic" bc they think you can't find someone local, and just clinging to someone far away like a fantasy. Like they think you just don't know how to date or meet people locally, and that you are afraid of breaking up with your ldr so because you dont think you'd know how to find anyone else or date.

It's annoying that a lot of people don't believe that LDRs could work out, and that we're just wasting our times with it, when we could have having fun hooking up with other people or whatever.

It's also annoying that they think LDRs don't work out because everyone needs the physical aspects of it, and "oh you're gf/bf is probably cheating on you over there anyway." True, I like physical aspects of it, but I love him, and if it's meant to be, it'll work out, and all the loneliness/hardships of the LDR.... he's completely worth it.

Just a rant.

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Picture [12 Jul 2004|12:06am]

[ mood | amused ]

My scanner is finally working so I can now put my absolute favorite picture of Ronnie and I on.

In the GymCollapse )

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